| Why do Russian ladies give preference to western men?
Certainly, Russian females like Russian males. Unfortunately, the number of thoughtful, loving, dedicated, family-oriented males in Russia and the CIS is very low. A large number of males are alcohol abusers and lazy. As a rule, they spend time with friends, drink and have affairs with other females. Therefore, Russian women are forced not only to work hard, but also to do the housework, which is typical of the Russian society. Very often Russian men are not involved in upbringing of children and actually have a dim understanding of 'a good father', because many of them were brought up by mothers who lost their husbands in the war.
Furthermore, women significantly outnumber men in Russia. Due to a large number of women, Russian males are often rather spoiled and do not value their families the way they should. Women feel glad even if they marry such a type of men as depicted above, because they fear to be alone, despite their strong-willed and decisive personality. Females who lack confident, put up with the unacceptable conduct of their husbands, others break up with their partners.
Actually, rare are cases when a 35-year-old woman in Russia. If a woman has kids, she is unlikely to get married, too.
A significant number of Russian women think that western men make better husbands, since they are more decisive, family-oriented in comparison with Russian men as well as will help about the house. They believe that they will create a stable economically secure union with western males. A large number of Russian women also think that abroad they will have more chances to make a career and can provide a better childhood for their kids than in the motherland.
Many Russian females marry experienced overseas males, since they feel secure knowing they are unlikely to be dumped for a younger female. Since women are searching for love and financial stability, they need experienced and dedicated males nearby.
There are countless examples of successful marriages with Russian girls. If the family is founded on mutual trust, respect, understanding and love, ethnical differences will not be an obstacle to create a stable happy family. |